EFT Step-by-Step
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Overview
The EFT model provides an empirically validated roadmap that will greatly enhance your success in working with couples. In this 4-volume course, you’ll embark on a journey with 6 real couples that underwent couples therapy for over 1 year with 4 leading EFT therapists and trainers. Learn the steps and techniques from carefully selected vignettes from these sessions, supplemented with expert commentary, ensuring that all relevant clinical points are thoroughly demonstrated and explained.
Each volume offers a focus on EFT’s attachment-based paradigm, along with an in-depth look at the key clinical tasks of each stage of the method. Interviewed by Victor Yalom, Jorgensen begins with an overview of Bowlby’s attachment theory, particularly as it pertains to relationships between partners. EFT is renowned for its emphasis on affect-based interventions, and here you’ll learn how to view couples’ needs through an attachment lens. As the series progresses, she further explains key interventions and rationales for alliance building and assessment, identifying the couple’s negative cycle, accessing primary emotions, and ultimately reaching a mutual narrative and roadmap for navigating conflict.
Jorgensen and her expert colleagues deftly demonstrate EFT’s phases step by step. Building on the concepts of previous stages of the approach, Jorgensen offers a thorough educational resource that will keep you engaged with each couple’s journey. Between creating and maintaining the therapeutic alliance, accessing and reformulating emotions, and restructuring interactions, the series gives you all you need to feel grounded and intentional with couples work.
Additional self-paced exercises will help you solidify the skills covered in each volume. By the end of the course, you will have learned a model that will provide structure to your couples sessions and will have acquired proven tools for making you a more effective couples therapist.
What’s Included
Learn an empirically validated roadmap to navigate the chaos of couples therapy
Volume 1: Core Concepts and Interventions
In the first volume Dr. Rebecca Jorgensen, EFT expert and sought-after trainer, gives a comprehensive overview of the core concepts, steps, stages, and key interventions of EFT. The theory and techniques come to life with numerous vignettes featuring six real-life couples with diverse backgrounds, ethnicities, and issues. Over 100 hours of actual couples therapy with four skilled EFT trainers and practitioners have been painstakingly distilled to demonstrate the essential components and subtleties of EFT.
Volume 2: EFT Stage 1
Learn in detail the four steps of EFT Stage 1 that lead to de-escalation. Through numerous excerpts from the sessions with our 6 couples, you will learn how to: identify the negative cycle, access primary emotions, recognize the markers of de-escalation, and ultimately lead the couple to an experiential understanding of the impact they have on each other. By the end of this volume, you will know how to guide your clients to take control of their negative cycle, giving them more hope and courage to go forward.
Volume 3: EFT Stage 2-3
In Stage 2, the therapist becomes a choreographer who restructures the clients’ interactions, guiding them through a process of becoming more open and responsive. Learn how to achieve EFT’s critical change events–withdrawer reengagement and pursuer softening; promote acceptance of new positions of the other partner and support partners being able to ask for their needs to be met. Once healthy, non-attacking, non-defensive communication can occur, clients and therapists are then able to move into Stage 3, consolidation, where clients can solidify their gains and apply their new skills to any unresolved problems.
Volume 4: Impasses and Challenges
In this final volume, Jorgensen and colleagues demonstrate how to handle an array of tough issues that can show up in the work. This includes both therapist and client issues, such as ruptures in alliances, trauma history, attachment injuries, intellectualizing, and more.
Multiple vignettes from actual cases combined with incisive commentary, offer invaluable tools and strategies to help you get your couples back on track. Building on the previous three volumes in the series, Jorgensen returns to major topics and themes for further depth and detail, such as maintaining the attachment frame, managing reactivity and dealing with shame.
BONUS VIDEO: John Bowlby on Attachment and Psychotherapy
In this rare 1984 lecture in London, John Bowlby, founder of Attachment Theory, presents his impactful ideas on the role of the early parent-child relationships in development across the lifespan.
About the Experts
Rebecca Jorgensen, PhD is Founder and Director of the Attachment Advancement Institute and Co-Director of The Training and Research Institute for Emotionally Focused Therapy. She is an EFT Supervisor and Trainer who has developed several streaming conferences and seminars and has hosted and/or co-presented with attachment theorists and researchers such as Sue Johnson, Phil Shaver and Jim Coan. Her online educational programs and consultation groups are popular all around the globe. This “therapists’ therapist” is known for her presence, clarity and empathy.

Scott Woolley, PhD is a Founder and Director of the San Diego Center for Emotionally Focused Therapy and the Training and Research Institute for EFT (TRI-EFT). Dr. Woolley has trained therapists in EFT in many areas of the world, and works closely with Dr. Susan Johnson, founder of EFT.

Lisa Palmer-Olsen, PsyD is a licensed marriage and family therapist in San Diego California. She is a Certified EFT Trainer and Supervisor and is a Founder and one of the Directors of the Emotionally Focused Couples Training and Research Institute at Alliant International University.

Mark Kaupp, PsyD, is a certified EFT Therapist, Supervisor and Trainer. In addition to traveling all over North America training other therapists in EFT, he is an adjunct professor at San Diego State University and Alliant International University, teaching couples therapy to students in their master’s and doctoral programs.

Disclosure
General Disclosure
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Therapist Disclosure
Rebecca Jorgensen was compensated for her contribution to this course. None of her books or additional offerings are required for this course. Should such materials be referenced, it is only as additional resources.
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Learning Objectives
- Discuss the applied foundations of EFT
- Describe core EFT interventions for accessing primary emotions
- Plan couples treatment that improves their communication
- Discuss the objectives and steps of EFT Stage 1
- Describe the core EFT interventions for identifying a couple’s emotional pattern
- Plan treatment around reframing couples’ communication patterns
- Discuss the objectives and steps of EFT’s Stages 2 and 3
- Describe the core EFT interventions for modifying the pursuer/withdrawer pattern
- Utilize EFT methods to help couples strengthen their relationships
- List the main obstacles EFT therapists face with couples
- Discuss EFT relationship interventions when working with trauma
- Plan couples treatment that strengthens their attachment base
What you get in this course
Real Sessions
Over 11 hours of videos including session excerpts with 6 real life couples and detailed commentary
Therapist Commentary
Detailed commentary, skill building exercises and additional resources to dramatically improve your work with couples
Clear Application
Clinical demonstrations give you a step-by-step approach learning of EFT techniques, stages, and advanced issues
Continuing Education
Earn up to 10 CE Credits
Bonus Resources
Multiple self-paced practice exercises to deepen your understanding of EFT
“Seeing so many examples of seasoned EFT therapists working with real couples is invaluable to really understand the subtleties and depth of this approach; I heartily recommend it.”
“I never knew learning can be so much fun. Like a riveting movie, these master therapists engage us, and take therapists on an inspiring journey that will greatly increase their effectiveness and confidence in doing couples therapy.”
“This video course featuring Dr. Rebecca Jorgensen is the best, most comprehensive program ever developed to teach therapists a systemic way to understand, assess, and treat couples.”
“Love working with couples but sometimes overwhelmed by the experience? Emotionally Focused Therapy Step by Step was created just for you. Take this course … you’ll be a better couples therapist.”